When Dementia is the Diagnosis
When a senior loved one is diagnosed with dementia, there are many emotions that come to the surface. For some family members, there is a sense of relief because they now know that there is a medical reason behind Mom or Dad’s peculiar behavior. For other family members there’s an initial concern and even fear about what the future will bring.
Both emotions are entirely understandable because one thing is for certain and that’s that there are big changes and challenges on the horizon.
Here are several things that you should do immediately:
Get educated
There are many misconceptions about dementia and the more that you know, the better prepared you will be for what lies ahead. There are websites that can help you in the education process and the sooner you start, the easier it will be to help your senior loved one as well as handle the situation as it evolves:
- https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/dementia/symptoms-causes/syc-20352013
- https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/what-dementia-symptoms-types-and-diagnosis
- https://www.medicinenet.com/dementia/article.htm
Develop a relationship with the medical team taking care of your senior loved one
Regardless of whether you live close or far away, it’s important to get to know your senior’s doctors. These are the professionals you should reach out to with questions and concerns; don’t rely on hearsay from others. If possible, accompany the senior to their doctor’s appointments so you can learn first-hand how the situation is progressing.
Establish open communication with your family
The changes that occur when someone is diagnosed with dementia can be very stressful for the family and often some family discord can occur. Family members must be on the same page with everyone working together for the well-being of the senior. Make it a point to have regular family meetings or video calls if the family lives far apart. Aim for honest communication and agreement on all of the “big” issues, including treatment, in-home care, legal matters and more.
Start to research resources
It might not be now, however, but dementia is a progressive disease and it is quite probable that your senior may not be able to take care of him or herself in the future. They may require part-time assistance or a full time live in home health care attendant to attend to their personal care, including help with hygiene, mealtimes and getting to and from appointments.
Right at Home can help. We can work with you and your family to provide your senior with exactly the right type of assistance and can start with part-time companionship and gradually transition to full-time live-in help as required. The best thing you can do is to call us to discuss your unique situation. We care and are here to help at each stage of this journey. Just give us a call or contact us online and set up an appointment with us today.
